He Wants To Take Things Slow After Chasing Me For Almost Four Years

Please help a sister out!

There is this guy that has been chasing me for close to four years now. When he started toasting me, I wasnt interested for a couple of reasons. I was not ready to settle down as I was just out of a bad break up. Secondly,I wanted to concentrate on my masters degree. Finally,I wasnt sure how serious he was.

Well,in August this year,I finally agreed to date him. He is nice,gentle and very understanding hence,I introduced him to my mom. All was going fine until the beginning of this month

We were at a dinner when I told him that I noticed that he has not been calling as frequently as before. I told him that he also does not respond to my whatsapp message on time. He then responded by saying he is busy at work and that if I am going to be nagging him like this,maybe we should take it slow.

I was like,what do you mean,and he goes he dosent like women putting pressure on him.

After that dinner,I havent seen him. When I send him a message,he will be like he is busy. I have asked him for us to duscuss but he hasnt said anything. When my mom called him,he told her that there is no problem but he is yet to respond back to me. The last text he managed to send last night was saying that he told me that we should take things slow and that he needs a little break.

My dear,I am confused,what did I do wrong? Why chase me for such a long time,now I have agreed and all of a sudden,he wants to take things slow?!!!

Should I really wait for him to come around or is this is own way of breaking up with me? I have really come to love this guy.

 

Please advice me.

Odion,

Lagos