6 Signs You Should Stop ‘Toasting’ A Girl

Some guys don’t just get it when a lady says No. But then again you can’t always blame us. I’ve been in cases where i was toasting a girl and when she didn’t show signs of interest i backed off (because there are many fish in the sea and i’m a good fisherman) and then after a while she starts saying why didn’t i continue pursuing her that she was just being coy (ladies and mixed signals though).



Below are some major signs and  she’s not interested in you



1. YOU’RE PROBABLY NOT HER TYPE: Sorry That’s the truth. Just because you are rich, nice and have an amazing body…. wait why doesn’t she like you again? All kidding aside though every person has a typical preference for the person they want to be with.
It’s usually attributed to the environment that they were brought up or exposed to. Some prefer a specific body type, height or even a certain level of intellect. If she is hard to please and you don’t pass her standards then pursuing her is a moot point.



2. YOU’RE HER REBOUND: Not everyone is comfy with starting a relationship if they are still attached to remnants of the past. The reason why they aren’t willing to go through with you could be because they are still not over Their Ex.



3. OR MAYBE SHE’S JUST PLAYING WITH YOU: Sadly this is true for some women. The insecurities and baggage they possess can cause collateral damage in the form of impressionable young men who just want to find a woman to settle with. A girl might string you along just for the fun of it or just because they’re bored. Worst case scenario, they have a boyfriend who’s not fond of her suitors.



4. SHE’S PROBABLY TOO NICE TO SAY NO: Girls with this type of mindset should realize that it’s more damaging to prolong the agony of rejection instead of just telling a guy to move on. They will allow you to court them but will make no promises for plausible deniability sake. This means that they are probably not that nice if they can make you work for something that you won’t get.



5. SHE’S BUSY: You should respect a persons priorities especially if you are not in a relationship. If a lot is going on in a girl’s life, then she probably isn’t ready to date yet. A woman who really likes you would voluntarily shift some things on her calendar to have dinner with you.



6. SHE SEEMS AND SOUNDS UNINTERESTED: Indifference is one of the reactions that’s easy to decipher. A person who isn’t enthusiastic is easily recognizable. Her glassy eyes., monotone voice and general appearance of boredom are big signs that she is not interested. She’s probably not rejecting you because she thinks it is too much work.