Watching porn isn’t bad or harmful unless it is not done in moderation, most people started watching porn at an early age and continued to do so for years. One thing I keep wondering is why do one have to watch porn when you can enjoy the real thing, do one really need those porn scenes to get aroused when one have a partner to satisfy one’s s3xual needs? “But then, there are people who are porn addicts and don’t get in the mood without watching a clip or two of erotica, watching erotic and kinky is great for experimentation but there’s nothing more pleasing than a nice lovemaking session, porn is just for instant pleasure with no emotion behind it”.
Research as stated that porn addiction can affect your s3x life if you are still doubting if porn can damage your s3x life with your partner or not then this article is for you. Here are reasons why men that watch porn are bad lovers.
Porn creates unrealistic expectations about your partner because it is scripted and it makes women in the movie have no flaws. In real life, women have flaws and they are not like the ones you watch in porn movies who can easily get you aroused. Those ones in the movie have done several body surgeries, can wear makeup in bed and dress up to look kinky in order to arouse men. Not seeing those things you see on your partner, this will definitely kill you s3x drive and affect your performance in bed.
Intimacy levels are low, watching porn gives you a boner but during real s3x you have to be connected with your partner emotionally before you can enjoy s3x. Intimacy plays a very important role in having real s3x and addiction to porn will detach you from your partner when you want to have s3x and it will make it difficult to reach an orgasm.
You won’t have any understanding of tender s3x, pornography is always aggressive but in real life women like tender and gentle love and experiment with kinky and aggressive s3x at times. “Men who watch porn every day are unable to associate with it completely, they get turned on by aggression and want it their way or just like what they are used to watching which will send off girls in real life”. They prefer caressing, cuddling, soft and romantic foreplay than the hardcore s3x you watch in porn.
You won’t pay attention to your woman’s orgasm, in porn it is all about getting your orgasm than the woman’s orgasm, it teaches that a man not to consider a woman’s orgasm and make him believe that a woman is equally enjoying herself while he is which is so untrue.
“While watching porn isn’t bad, one needs to draw a line, even though it is good to spice up your s3x life but there are other creative ways too so give porn a break and pay attention to your woman and make love with her”.
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