Bedroom Habits That Are Killing Your Relationship

African American man dressing in bedroom

At times it’s not always the big things that ruin relationships because some seemingly harmless little things can be as dangerous or worse as the big things. There is some thoughtless bedroom behaviour that can put off your partner and cause a serious strain between the two of you without even realising it because if you are a slob in the bedroom, it is pretty game over for you.

So for the sake of your relationship, here are some bedroom habits you should avoid like a plague.

Keeping your bedroom messy: “Call us corny, but the bedroom is your temple of intimacy; there is no bigger sacrilege than littering it with unwashed clothes, newspapers and remnants of food you ate on the night before as looking at the pile of rubbish on the bed will only stress you out so keeps it uncluttered and neat”.

Eating on the bed: “No, we are not talking about feeding each other chocolate in bed, it’s impossible to eat on the bed without spilling crumbs of your food in bed, especially if you are eating chips or other crispy snacks and this is bound to invite the local ant population to party on your sheets; good luck getting bitten by these pests during moments of intimacy”.

Using your phone on the bed: “We get it, you and your smartphone are inseparable but being glued to the screen while your partner is looking for your attention is just plain mean, when you are in bed with your partner, everything else can wait; shower them with the attention they need when you are in bed with them”.

Working on the bed: “It’s a big no-no to drag your work to your bed, stress is the last thing you want to associate with lovemaking; for a good s3x life and for the overall well-being of your relationship, avoid working on the bed or even talking about work”.

Not addressing health issues: “Not addressing health problems like snoring, flatulence, burping, low-libido, incontinence etc can be a real dampener (no pun) in relationships; your snores could be robbing her of a good night’s sleep even if you have been with each other for a long time so make an effort and address those issues before your partner packs up and leaves”.