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I have been in several relationships, my last was my best but we had to break up for some reason best known to both of us. I decided to give myself some space before getting into another one. Then came a guy that has been on my case for quite a while but we were kind of off and on, he finally came back and he sent me a dm on Instagram saying he missed me that he’s back to the country now and he wants a serious relationship, we had dinner and he said a lot of things that blew my mind, unlike other guys that will say things like let me take care of you, you are beautiful and all that….he was more concerned about making me the best version of myself, he said he was ready to love me not like a boyfriend only but like a father, a friend and a husband. I really loved the way he spoke to me and that was a bonus for him, we continued talking regularly and we started dating, I saw him again and he didn’t even disturb me for sex, we saw again after then I went to spend two days this time around and he was really a wonderful person, he was everything I wanted in a guy but the only aspect that was failing is his inability to call and I was always telling him and he kept promising to change, eventually we had sẹ̀x and it was the best sẹ̀x ever but after that sẹ̀x he stopped chatting and as usual wasn’t calling , I was always the one trying to make us communicate because I had fallen in love with him, I begged him to at least call me once a day but he will say I talk to much so one day I got frustrated and I sent him a message saying he made me fall in love with him and he just left me, that when he’s ready to settle down, the girl he will be in love with will treat him exactly how he is treating me and he got angry and said I was cursing him. I apologized and said I said it out of frustration and I begged and begged but since then he has refused to reply my messages or pick my calls. I’m really hurting because I feel like he just used me because I told him before we started that if he just wanted to come to my life, hurt me and leave he should let me know.
Please am in a dilema, in need to serious help and advice.
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