Dear Admin: All They Want From Me Is S3x

Dear Admin,

Good day, I’m sending in this story cos I’m confused. I started dating at an early age, 17 and I’ve been in 2 relationships since then I’m 24 years old now, will be 25 in a few months. I’m a simple and easy going girl, so I have no idea why most guys that approach me only do so because of s3x. I’m not really endowed with feminine attributes, so I always believe anyone that’s comes to me, must really appreciate my personality but it hasn’t been so. All they want from me is s3x.

I met a new guy recently, he finished from my school, I didn’t trust him at first cos he looked like someone who isn’t ready for a serious relationship. I ended up giving in to him. He professed his love so many times that I was wondering if I was being insecure for not believing him.

We’ve been dating for 2 months now and his character has changed totally.  He is a doctor and he uses his job as a form to lie for not being available.  He doesn’t call and if I call he doesn’t call back. It takes forever for him to reply my messages and it wasn’t like this before.  Anytime I complain to him about not being available he is very quick to apologise and make his job take the blame.

I told him the last time he came to see me that if he isn’t interested anymore he should break up with me, instead of just taking me for a ride, but he started apologising again. I’m tired of complaining and he isn’t changing, I’m always the one to initiate a conversation and even make the most calls in the relationship. Most times I think I’m cursed, cos I have lots of love to give but I’m not receiving any in return.  I don’t know if I should still be patient and continue to string along with him or if I should just break up with him myself cos I’m not getting any younger.